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Me now here in Thailand, how do I get to date nice & decent western man ?

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I`m Thai lady born here in Bkk Thailand & trying to find some nice western guy to date with, but(!) those who are here mostly just want to get laid with local thai girls just for fun, okay, I admit that my country is known in many bad ways about sex trade & all that, but(!) just letting you guys know that NOT ALL THAI GIRLS are like that, & prostitutes & easy girls for fun is just everywhere in world, so please don`t judge,
I`m typical thai girl who has normal life & doesn`t work in bar which I`ve seen enough of how Thai guys(basically a lot of asian men) treat ladies badly & I don`t want to take a chance with any Thai man(not saying all of them are like that but(!) this is the fact that a lot of thai lady friends of mine are having the sort of problem like, the guys drink a lot & don`t work, hitting girls & leaving them as single parents, very irresponsible),
Plus, I`ve also seen many happy Thai-Western couples that they treat eachother right, they seem to be very lucky & I thought that was kind of like my dream to have such a man.
so I was thinking if I give myself a chance of seeing some western/European I might find the right person for a serious relationship 1 day, problem is that I`ve tried, to look for some from the internet & it seemed like I found only weirdos & bad guys who look for some fun only,
Any suggestions? guys? Or should I just turn myself into gay ?
Could this be the best solution? lol I hope this is my last way out
anyway thanks in advance.

743 day ago

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mensexonly	Best Answer Well you sound like a nice girl; Actually there are so many Weatern guys looking for a normal Thai girl, born & raised in Bangkok,but they can never find!555(same as you, other way round)My customers ask me all the time `Where can I find a normal girl?Where do I have to go ?. It`s not easy to answer,because Thailand being the way it is is full of girls that can seem honest at first, but later have big secrets that come out e. g. babies,husbands & other boyfriends; It`s a shame really cause Thailands reputation can really mess it up for your normal city girl,who wants & has nothing to do with all the prostitution bullshit that goes on. I know many regular girls from BKK & they are lovely,but I don`t want to play matchmaker for my customers,in case anything goes wrong. I think to be honest if you mess around meeting guys off of net alot, you will meet alot of `nut nut`s` looking for a quick lay; It seems to work out that way. But perhaps chat to some people you like, build up bit of relationship first from distance; Get to know them a bit. I`m sure you can judge for yourself feeling you get when you chat to them. If they are just idiots looking for lay or someone you like. Also you said Thai guys treat girls badly,but so can a Falang guy. It`s just guys really!So don`t expect too much from someone at first,get to know them, and play bit hard to get. That way it gives you some time to learn about the other person, and if they are right for you or not. If he likes you seriously, then he will wait & respect you. But too find a good guy. hmmmmmmmmm; Well, this isnt necessarily right at all, but; write off most you meet at Ko Sann Rd,they are mostly on holiday, have no idea about real girls, only what they have read or been told by friends(and It`s prob not positive)That advice also goes for most the bars around Sukhumvit as well. Not sure how old you are, but perhaps go to some clubs where the mix is more Thai than falang-cause then it`s mainly falangs with a bit of knowledge & understanding of BKK & the way it works here. Not just backpackers on a `shag as many as you can mission` If your out at mall or eating. whatever; If you see someone you like, flirt a bit!It will make you look more confident & in control. Perhaps they`ll respect a bit more; cant really think of anything else right now,but I know it`s not easy! Also don`t think that all the Thai /Western relationships are easy or happy, cause that`s far from true; It`s bloody difficult with regular misunderstandings in culture & language!Far far from easy! Good luck (and never turn easy,it`s a bad bad way to go ) 743 day ago ( 0 ) ( 0 ) Comment(s) (0) Report Abuse Add Comment Close No comments yet !!! Be the first to comment on this answer !!!

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