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Am I gay or just damaged?

When i was 12 my 15 year old cousin made me have oral sex with him. At the time I did not like it ,but i got a hard on . He told me that meant i was gay and like sucking dick. I went back for more because it felt good. This was my first sexual experience. In high school I dated girls and had sex with them, but I also had oral sex with some guys. I am now 35 and unmarried. I seem to feel as though sucking dick is all I am good for. I do like it , but I feel dirty and ashamed when I am witha guy. Every female relationship I have , I always do something to mess it up. Am I gay , or just messed up because of waht happened to me when I was younger?

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shvd28	Best Answer Most guys go through the same experiences as you and me in their early teens and its usually with a relative, cousin or friend and it doesnt mean your gay or bisexual, it\'s just experimenting and curiosity. Lost of guys jack each other off or watch each other when there teens or early 20\'s. Theres no reason to think you are damaged in any way if you like oral sex with guys or both guys and women. And join the club if you have been in a lot of relationships with women, who hasn\'t!!! So your younger days were just like everyone elses and didnt mess you up in any way. No need to feel dirty or ashamed about what is fun, theres millions of others just like you, so relax and stop beating yourself up so much and have some fun , thx 655 day ago ( 0 ) ( 0 ) Comment(s) (0) Report Abuse Add Comment Close No comments yet !!! Be the first to comment on this answer !!!

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Alex

Hello!

Only you can give answer on question is you gay or not. More likely you is bisexual.

Relations with women is a different than with gay men. Gay men relations is more open and both partners in same equal position (about feels, work, etc) than men-women relations. In men-women relations partners not in equal positions, may be because of this - you mess up relations with womens.

Or just may be you just not meet 'your real women'. or men.

Your experience in past more about sex, not about feels to mens. So looks like you bisexual, want date with women but like to have a oral sex with men sometime. I can tell you what many married mens do like it, just see gay ads or dark rooms in most of gay clubs. Here lot of bisexuals (mens married on womens) who like to suck cock/etc.

So listen your feels, if you want date with women do it, anyway you can off in the gay clubs. Or if you more liked idea to be with men - find a good guy for you and if you want to have sex with women - you can take a call-girl sometimes.

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