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Husband admitted cheated! How do I protect myself?

Part two of this question. I already put a long post on a couple days ago about suspecting my husband of cheating; I found emails sent to other women; There were three emails to a woman that lives locally. 1 email from him says `tried to call you last night, wanna try & be with You this thursday, I am off work`. So I give him a copy of emails & ask him to explain. He tells me they are just friends. Later he tells me he was thinking about cheating with her because he though we were over! I ask if he even cheated, I suspected at least one time with one person; Then he drops bomb on me & say he has cheated on me with 6 different people!(5 women & one man-he said he thought he might be gay so he got a BJ from him but(!) didn`t like it! ) He said no 1 meant anything to him which is even worse to me! He admitted not using any protection one time! He was screwing everything! This was on Monday. He said he has not cheated in 10 years, but(!) of course I do not believe him! He says he is going to hell for this & it has been bothering him for years but(!) I think he is just trying to manipulate me! I So I say I could have an STD. He says I already got an HIV test so you cannot have anything but(!) I could get it if it makes me feel better! At least three of his encounters were after this! So Tuesday I went to DR & he had me tested for an chlamydia & will have me tested for HPV if my Pap comes back abnormal! He was actually mad at me for bringing it up again that I wanted to get tested; Now I have to wait 10 days for the results. fact that he put me in this position is devastating to me! Some STD`s can kill you! Plus all the possible long term health effects! I want to know how I could have been so wrong about him? I guess there were signs all along, I just did not notice them; So tonight I check his AskGayMen chat & he has some woman telling him to call her before 5 am! He has her phone #, I already found that in his AskGayMen account; I am sorry this post is so long but(!) I need to vent; I have no friends or family where I live! I know I need to separate our money(he has been spending like crazy), change password/pins, talk to a divorce lawyer & get a job. He says he will leave our house if I want a divorce. So I know I have a place to live. What other things should I do to prepare for this? Thanks for any help & just for reading me very long post!

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