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What happened to my gay friends?

A few years ago, I met my boyfriend in a bar; He was with some of his friends & I was with mine. Now to make a long story short, he`s friends (a couple) recently bought a house. Me & my boyfriend where very happy for them; For some reason 1 of them was always telling us how, all of their friends were jealous that we bought this house. 1 night they invited us for dinner & some `straight` friends of him were there. 1 of them was bothering me the whole night-too much details to list here-so before we left house I told him `your friends is an a-hole`. Right before I left-mind you I was pissed drunk-I was talking to his partner & he came over & supposedly-I don`t remember doing this-I gave him attitude when I told him ` I`ll l tell you tomorrow. ` Now, this guys-his str8-planned all this cuz he knew he would take his side & he obviously did He told me `if he threw down your iphone why you didn`t say something` I told him because I was in private property I didn`t` want to cause scene; He stilll says that I gave him attitude & that because it was in his house that was wrong; I apologized-but told him that I didn`t` remember giving him attitude because again I was mad at his `str8 friend` not him & I don`t even remember what was it that I was telling his partner; Now, I hear all of his gay friends no longer talk to him & he only hangs out with the str8 people from the party because he feels accepted by them; Frankly I really don`t understand why gay people when they get a str8 friend it`s like the gay people that supported you no longer matter. funny thing is his sister heard some of his `friends` talk crap about gay people that same night; Yet, he doesn`t believe her. He`s partner still wants to talk to us & invite us over house but(!) then other 1 still feels I `disrespected him in his house`<---his words not mine & made him look bad in front of his new friends. Mind you, I didn`t bother this guy, he was jealous every time I had conversation with anybody at the party he would jump right in; Anywho, should we accept his partners invitation or just cut friendship with them? It`s soooo hard to meet gay friends especially when you are in a relationship. sad part tis this, his partner told my partner, `we only go where his str8 friend wanna go, what they do wha they eat it`s like I have no saying in this relationship anymore`

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