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Do you think it`s disrespectful when a gay guy hits on a male friend that he knows is straight?

Here`s the thing. I consider myself open-minded and liberal about most things, & that includes gays, gay rights, etc. I`m straight male. I once made friends with a guy at my job who I suspected was gay. He knew I was straight. & we were friends for a couple months, & 1 time while hanging out he told me he was growing a `crush` on me; & then started rubbing my head. I brushed his hand off & told him that I am not in to that. & we had a small argument & I let him know that the friendship had to end;

And I`ve had this happen before with other gay guys.

Now, I am wary of making friends with someone that`s gay because I fear the same will happen; So I guess I`m `prejudiced` & `bigot` now; Even though it seems too many gays don`t respect the rights and views of straights.

You`ve got to understand, that most straight guys, from what I observed, would never try to be friends with a gay guy just on principle. I was more open-minded than them, & figured gay guy will respect my views and sexual orientation & keep everything on a friendship level; but(!) I was wrong;

Isn`t it disrespectful for a gay person to try & `convert` someone that they know is straight? It`s no different than me trying to make a gay guy try to hook up with women. Hydrophilic: Well, aren`t you the judgmental one. With other gay friends, I`ve told them to stop hitting on me & they only returned to hit on me again; These `urges` that they have don`t simply disappear simply because you told them to stop. Problematic: Nah, he wasn`t joking. Trust me. He was very serious & took me to an area to tell me in private;

747 day ago

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