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Is my friend bisexual or is he just really friendly with gay guys? & how can I test him?!?

ok so I have a really close friend named JJ (well that`s not his name but(!) lets just call him that) & I`m 18 he`s 19 we`re both gonna move to college together in fall & I am ridiculously in love with him. =/ however idk if he is gay or bisexual or if he is straight but(!) just really friendly becz everyone in school knows I`m gay, & he obviosly does too, but(!) he is always playing around like he is gay with me & stuff. we`re both in drama club, he is really muscular & sexy & he is just amazing. I don`t want You guys to answer this based on cliches but(!) on what I say:

- he grabs my aszsss sometimes & smiles
-he mimicks me lot when I act gay (but playing around, becuz we have friendship)
-he always touches guys (yes playing aroun, but(!) stilll)
-he says he doesnt `do gfs`
-all he does sexually that I know is fu** girls
-hes the typical straight macho guy (or hopefully masculine gay/bi guy)
-and he is my friend & we`re really close;
-hes always jumping on my back & into my arms playing around
- idk he is just so amazing & he has me in his palm, & he doesnt even know it;
- & he is always talking about the guys I like( like if I`m saying ugh todays a bad day, he`ll be like `oh, well if You were doing 69 w/ taylor lautner would You feel better?)
- he told me he had a dream where me him & a friend(girl) were having a 3some but(!) I was straight in the dream.
-he texted my friend the other morning saying these exact words `TOday I walked into Alexa`s room (Alexa=mutual friend that he texted) to find Angel (me) doing 69 with Taylor Lautner (my celeb crush) while Alexa was tied up watching, & Brandon,Sage,Chris,Camilo were taking notes FML (those guys he mentioned are gay)` He texted that out of nowhere.
- he told me he had another dream that he was at club & all the gay guys were going all over him,and yes I was there;
-and obviously I`m gonna tell You guys the gay things he does but(!) he still is straight acting (most of time)


FML idk what to do.

LEt me know if You have anymore questions or if You wanna know what else he does; yes it matters if he is gay or not, cuz that depends on if have a chance with him lol duh he is also kissed guy before in game of truth or dare & in truth they asked who he would go gayfor an he said me; <3

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jimmygay
based on all that stuff. i don`t see how he could be straight, in fact he is obsessed with whole gay thing!. he thinks about gay sex more than you!. how is he straight?
i have littl question; do You guys, including JJ think about anything else at all?

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jimmygay
Ask him if he ever had girlfriend, or if he thinks this girl (some random girl) is attractive

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charliegay
Maybe he just thinks It`s fun to act gay!

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gopbol
does it matter if he is gay or not

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gopbol
Go for it. His symptoms are really bisexual in least.

When I did same sex it wasn`t anyting like your friend. boy who does same sex won`t mess about like that unless he as really bisexual or gay;

Unless you`re guy getting off on posting this topic

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gopbol
Based purely on what you said, I get the impression that he`s just a really friendly straight guy. 1 of my best friends is straight but(!) almost everyone he meets thinks he`s gay because of way he acts with me; he`s very touchy-feely, very `huggy` & is really playful. but(!) he`s still straight. What I`m getting at is that I get impression that `JJ` is just being a cool friend; :D

Then again, we don`t know him like you do, so it`s quite difficult to tell; Just be happy that you have a friendship with him for now; if it turns out that he`s gay (he`ll probably tell you first, since you are gay yourself) then ask him out, but(!) for now I wouldn`t risk putting your friendship at risk by making any moves

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He`s hinting it to you. Try kissing him playfully & see if he accepts it. If he doesn`t have a problem grabbing you or doing other things like that, then why should a sweet peck be any different? Good luck!

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