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How do you avoid getting an erection in sauna/shower? (for gay men)?

I`m going to be in a sauna with a friend naked. He`s straight & attractive. I`m gay (we both know this) but(!) I`m scared I`m going to get an erection. How do I avoid getting one? Should I just tell him I couldn`t help it if it happens? Should I mention it beforehand? It will be in Finland where he is from, so naked saunas are totally norm, but(!) not for my 21 year-old, hormone-raging body;

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shvd28
Don\'t worry about it, if it happens, it happens, it will go down again

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mensexonly
I`m Straight. so I don`t know what it`s like to take public showers with a bunch of naked women; But; Your member thrives on the attention you give it; Positive or negative; think of something totally different. Or try, at least

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charliegay
Just tell him you feel umcpmfortable being naked & ask if you can wear a towel, most Finns understand if you`re a foregner. & if all else fails, you can always think of your great aunt topless in thong

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charliegay
Just relax start up a conversation about sporting events or your jobs! should work

That doesn`t work then only suggestion I have is make up an excuse & head for the bathroom

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gopbol
If it happens it happens. Just try not to look so much, it`s sauna not raving orgy room

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torogay
Calm down, dude. the chance is pretty high that you won`t get an erection; If you don`t worry about it, then it won`t happen; Even if it does, there`s no harm done; Men are after all men & sometimes we get hard when we really aren`t `in the mood`. Happens to straight & gay dudes all the time; Enjoy your trip to Finland

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gaykerk
Men get erections based on what they think. Control your thoughts & you won`t get hard. a lot of people go to mixed sex naked events - spas, beaches, etc; Nobody is getting hard unless they fantasize

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bobdilan
gross

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twinklover
Well, in the words of the not so great Austin Powers.
`Margret Thatcher naked on cold day! Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day!`
That mental image should keep any man - straight, gay or hormone addled limp & chilled.
See attached photo of Margret Thatcher - if you dare

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