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what gift do you buy for gay coworker?

my coworker is gay & he will turn 50 on tommorow; what is best gift to buy him that`s not to expensive or insulting; he is the woman in the relationship. pls no smart remarks I really need a gift idea;

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gaynudist 		Something for him. It`s his birthday. It`s not joint birthday of him & his partner. It`s not about who`s what in relationship; Buy him something for him. a small gift cert to a coffe shop he likes, or a tie if he wears them. 1 of most memorable things I ever got from a coworker is a glass paper wieght that looks like a catseye marble

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bobdilan 		I do not know. I have never been gay & I do not wish to be one

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mensexonly 		umm he`s woman? lol nm
if he`s `the woman` & he`s really fashion conscious then you probably shouldn`t give him clothing. Though ties are good! may be you can get solid-color tie or a tie with a really subtle pattern. gosh ties are so awesome. (i`m weird)

Um how about a book about something. or novel or something. bestseller.

Also you could give him a cd. I don`t know if he`ll think you stereotyped him but(!) I like Andrea Bocelli`s pop cd (amore or something) my dad is frickin addicted to it.

Maybe you could give him gift card! to a bookstore or a music store or. starbucks or to a tie store;

P. S. that`s really nice of you to give your coworkers a gift I wouldn`t do that lol

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gaykerk 		a gerbil will make him very, very happy

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torogay 		why does it matter if he is gay, just get him a gift card for dunkin donuts, or a mall gift card

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gaynudist 		Really just get him anything he likes; Just because he`s gay doesn`t mean you have to get him something `gay` related; Do you know what kind of music he likes!? What his tastes are!? Get him something for him as person, not because he`s gay

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jimmygay 		What a silly idea! Unless you are thinking about a racy calendar, his sexual orientation should have nothing to do with it. Pick something based upon what you know about him besides how he likes his sex

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bobdilan 		As a gag gift? If not, why does his sexual preference determine what you are going to buy him? a gift certificate, spa day, anything that you would give to any other person would be just as good. Get him something with the number 50 in it, like the American Flag; Don`t get him that though, It`s a terrible idea. LOL

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mensexonly 		he`s `the woman` in relationship? I hope he doesn`t read this, because that`s really insulting! why do people think there`s always a `man` & `woman` in gay & lesbian relationships?
(I know you said `no smart remarks, but(!) I had to point out that most of us would take offense to that!)
anyway;
do you know what movies(dvds)/books, etc; he likes? stores/restaurants he goes too (I like gift cards lot, but(!) don`t know if he does)

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gaymentop 		I bot her some lone chair`s for her patio

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charliegay 		He`s a woman? may be some perfume or a bra or a nice blouse

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charliegay 		The same kind of gift you would buy for ANY person. does it make difference?

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gaynudist 		He isn`t the woman in the relationship; unless he identifies as transgender person, he`s a man, who is in a relationship with another man;

However, as far as gifts to purchase-get him gift that reflects your relationship with him, his personality & his likes. If he`s coffee drinker, a nice coffee mug & some really good coffee, if he reads a lot, a cool bookmark & a giftcard to bookstore, & so on; His sexual orientation doesn`t have anything to do with the kinds of gifts he might enjoy from you

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gaymentop 		It really doesn`t matter that he is gay. Birthdays are birthdays; Give him gift certificate for $50.

Good luck

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twinklover 		Exactly,doesn`t matter he`s gay. Although I don`t know wtf to buy a 50 year old man,lol; How about some nice candles,everyone male & female love candles

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gaynudist 		`the woman in relationship`? Um that`s not how it works!

If you don`t know him that well, a card would be fine I`m sure

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gaynudist 		same as anyone else

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serenity 		well regardless of role they play in the relationship; it shouldn`t matter. however a very safe gift would be wine if he drinks; if not a basket of goodies is good also

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mensexonly 		I`d say that probably whatever you`d get a straight coworker. Don`t really see how his sexual orientation would have any effect on the situation; Don`t fret over it

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torogay 		Unless you`re planning on buying him lube or something, his sexuality doesn`t matter; Choose a gift based on his interests.

And it`s rather insulting to say he`s `woman in the relationship. ` While some gay relationships can work that way, very few do, & it`s a stereotype

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jimmygay 		His sexual appetites are not what is being celebrated; It is his birthday; As with anyone else, think of the things he may like or need & get it. How does his sex life come into play?

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bobdilan 		umm. i don`t think it makes a difference if he is gay or not ; just find out what he likes that should help you out some

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gaynudist 		Why does it matter that he`s gay?
What would you buy straight coworker?

What are his interests?

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gaynudist 		Why buy him anything different from what you`d buy any other man? You could get him an inexpensive sweater, or tie, just buy something along the lines of what you`ve seen him wear; It could be cologne, if he wears it. You could also buy him something for his desk area if you work in an office, a picture for his wall or desk. the thing is to not think of him as `gay` co-worker you`re buying gift for; he`s just a man you work with

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