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being called gay at school?

if you are called gay at school & you tell them to stop & they continue is that harrasment or sexual harrasment because i`ve been called gay for past 2 years at school so this year if they call me gay i`m going to file for harrasment or sexual harrasment so please help well imagion where you can`t go day no not even an hour with out being called gay or being shoved around & being looked at & well 1 day this girl just comes up to me & says hey do you know nicoles friend (i would be nicoles friend) & she says well anyways nicoles friend is so gay & she was saying it to my face I mean what do I do

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charliegay 		Be cool. and don`t get irritated. At least act cool & don`t show your anger; the harassers will get tired themselves & stop it

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torogay 		You should kick their ass.
That oughta take care of the problem.
Filing for sexual harrasment will just make them call you a gay snitch

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serenity 		It could be construed as harassment, & possibly even discrimination, and/or hate speech. the 1 thing it isn`t is sexual harassment -- that would be someone making unwanted sexual advances. Unless they`re saying they want to have sex with you, or something of that nature, it would not be sexual harassment

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gaynudist 		yea you can take it to court but(!) the judge will say this case is ridiculous & dimiss it. He will not even bother with it. just go to the teacher & tell is honestly the best thing you can do (the bad they will call you a big snitch) or just kick there A** & it will all be over soon

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gaynudist 		Go to this site & buy book - it will help u
http://www. 1shoppingcart. com/app/?Clk=1660586

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jimmygay 		IF you`re not `gay`
and you`re call this in front of
other people. it is called
`slander` [defamation of character].
Yes you can sue.
Problem will be. getting witnesses if they
are ALL calling you gay

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gaymentop 		yea you could, my two best friends & I were called lesbians all time. It didn`t bother us, sometimes when we were bored we would even egg it on. Be thankful that you are not as narrow minded as they are. I think it would help though if before you filed a charge against someone you talk to them 1 on one; You tell them like straight forward, `if you continue with this I am taking it to court, this is serious issue & I am not putting up with your elementary style rants, now I advise you to grow up & quit it & tell all your friends that I will do that same thing, to them; Now this is a warning, if this happens again I will not hesitate to take this to court (or where ever. )` you know something like that where your the bigger man; It is important that when talking to them you are assertive & you are the 1 with the power, & don`t let it go any other way. ((((i always felt special when they called us lesbians, because I mean if they take the time to notice, we must be important. lol. besides that`s how I met my boyfriend, I was his favorite lesbian. lol/// just don`t let them get you down, just remember that homosexual people are treated this way everyday; hope that helped :)

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gaymentop 		In some states, there are laws against bullying. Name calling in school is expected, but(!) if it is being taken too far, & is affecting you emotionally & psychologically then you may need to take action with the school. Talk to your parents, the guidance counselor, or your principal

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gaymentop 		i was in your shoes once. all I can say is: GET OVER IT!
it won`t stop unless you do

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gaynudist 		yea I had this friend matt ppl were calli him gay beacuse he is beautiful & he cares himself & at end now,. he even has a girlfriend. no. just ignore them & try to porve them ure not!if You r. than. dunno. is You are decisison

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charliegay 		Start by reporting the past sexual harassment to the principal; If he doesn`t take action, make a police report each & every time it occurs. Also, get your parent(s) to go to a school board meeting & talk to the school board about it. EVERY school has a written sexual harassment policy. If the staff are not following it, the school board needs to know so that they can take action. Also, if this is on-going, take it to the press

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serenity 		When I was kid I was called gay all time, It`s just something kids say

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bobdilan 		ARE you gay?

EDITED TO CLARIFY

As an Attorney I don`t mince words. I asked you a very specific question for a very specific reason. Now, either answer it or take the answers given by those who are NOT attorneys

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