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is my boyfriend gay or bi? hmm please help?

Okay my boyfriend is really nice to me & I love him, but(!) in the back of my mind I think he might be bisexual or something. He has kinda long finger nails (no not manicured) just long. He talks to a lot of ppl. but he has gay friend who is ALWAYS at his house. He likes having anal sex with me ( but(!) I think most guys like to try it). sometimes the way he talks or walk is kinda weird; If he could be how should I come about this?

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serenity 		thats kinda awkard. why don`t you ask him?

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gopbol 		Ask him straight up about it but(!) don`t assume anything. He could just be guy with feminine side; You`re being really judgmental

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gopbol 		ask him
if he is with you then he is not gay unless he breaks up with you & tells you
he could be bisexual sexual
or he could be feminine guy

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bobdilan 		Well for a start if he was gay, he wouldn`t be dating a girl; If he`s bi, what does it matter? He`s dating you isn`t he? It sounds like you might be the 1 with a problem, not him

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mensexonly 		Leave him & come with me, I`ll treat you better & I won`t leave you for a guy

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charliegay 		ask him but(!) if he is you should have 3some

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gaymentop 		well You should ask him; & I don`t think any of what You said makes him gay or bi

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torogay 		If he`s committed & loving to you then he`s not gay. but(!) if he`s cheating on you then leave him. Does it really matter whether the other person he`s seeing is a guy or girl (if he`s cheating)? the only thing that matters is whether you love each other or whether he`s cheating on you.

I always tell people if they`re worried their boyfriend or girlfriend is bisexual (we`re assuming he`s not gay) they should be grateful instead. Having a bisexual bf is better than having straight 1 because you`re more special to him than 6. 6 billion possible lovers, but(!) if he`s straight you`re only more special than 3; 3 billion possible lovers

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twinklover 		We don`t know all answers as to how sexual orientation develops; last I read, it seems to be at least partially a product of the uterine environment. If that`s case, it`s not truly genetic (albeit almost definitely at least partially so), but(!) it`s part of the environmental effects that we can`t control. and, it means that a person could be born gay;

It is not a sin to *be* homosexual. Having the desire is not a sin yet, but(!) people can control if the ACT upon them. Thus, while being homosexual is not a sin, acting upon those urges & engaging in homosexual relations is a sin. To give you another example, many, many people have desires for the opposite sex before marriage. Those desires in & of themselves are not sinful (and during puberty & adolescence, can be rampant), but(!) choosing to dwell on those thoughts or to act upon them before marriage is sinful.

Living a chaste life is very difficult for all of us. In today`s society, chastity & purity is nearly impossible. For homosexuals, it`s even more difficult as they can never realize their desires in a God-sanctioned relationship. (Chastity may be difficult for heterosexuals, especially before marriage, but(!) there`s at least the possibility of eventually falling in love & being able to engage in sexual relations within marriage; ) Why God gave them this cross to bear, I don`t know; And, we must acknowledge that it is a very difficult cross to bear. However, I also think that *all* of us have been given various crosses to bear, some of them more difficult than others;

homosexuality can thus be a choice of lifestyle. People of all cultures have different urgings, some which are not approved by God. It`s up to the individual to discipline himself to not give in to sin.

There is no scientific proof of any gene that says someone is homosexual. There are those who have left homosexuality lifestyle, & can help others to find their way as well I guess. As with anything we rely upon & become acclimated to, it is difficult to change;

http://www. opposingviews. com/i/study-say…

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