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CAN I GET gay OUT OF MY SYSTEM?!?!?

ok I`m 19 (male) & I`ve been masturbating to gay fantasies & porn for while I even played with anal toys, now I consider myself bicurious because (and I`m being honest here)i really don`t want to have gay sex, I have had straight sex with my ex (who I`m now back with) & since weve been back together weve fooled around only once (not full out sex), but(!) I`m urging to go all the way again so bad, & I really like this girl we get along & I just have strong feelings for her, & I`ve never developed feelings for guys even though I have alot of close guy friends, & I`ve never had the urge to actually take my fantasy & take it past fantasy, I just wouldnt want to do it because I feel like I wouldnt really like it in real life that much It`s just a fantasy, but(!) I feel like whole gay porn & fantasy thing is starting to get old, like I feel like I`m burning out on it, but(!) I know that I`m not gay & I`m pretty sure I`m not even bisexual so can I do anything to get it out of my system

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gaykerk 		you play with anal toys but(!) you have no interest in having gay sex? Hmmmmm; You don`t get gay out of your system; You know if youre gay, bisexual or straight; embrace it. love it

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gaykerk 		I happen to be straight myself; but admitted I do get turned on by depictions of homosexuality, mostly in Anime/Mange department (though those characters tend to be rather effeminate in appearance. `pretty` so it`s easy to interchange the genders, I suppose). Anyway, my gf & a great majority of girls I know, are all turned on by same kinds of things, so I think really the porn isn`t that great of a factor. Intimacy is intimacy & explicit stimulation of just about any variety can have similiar effects on you mentally, emotionally & physically, regardless of if it`s straight, homosexual or even just solo or softcore stuff. So don`t worry about that aspect.

Now onto the second part. I have dabbled in a bit of anal play & found that it`s uncomfortable, especially when combined with my typical routine which causes me to tense up; However, from what I`ve heard & researched on the subject, rectal area is just as sensative & can be stimulated in much the same way as a vigina. This in mind, any appreciates the pleasureable sensations of masturbation or sex & how they choose to simulate themselves doesn`t dictate that they are gay or straight.

You don`t feel any romantic interest in men & you feel that you wouldn`t be comfortable in relationship with someone of the same gender; the 1 relationship you DO have is with a female, whom you seem to have a deep, emotional connection with & obviously a desire strong enough to be with her that you were willing to voice this concern & ask for advice. For these reasons, I think it`s very much safe to say that you are NOT gay, plain & simple. My advice is to not worry about it & don`t feel ashamed about it either. How you choose to masturbate is your own business & who you want to be with is all that matters, so don`t sweat it

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gopbol 		perhaps You were just curious. don`t think it means You are gay; I`ve had a friend says she masturbates to two females performing oral sex. but doesnt feel the need to take it to reality

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gaymentop 		theres no way of getting gay out of your system lol but(!) I believe every person has fantasized about something of the same sex male & female both but(!) don`t really act on it & honestly if it was burning out you wouldn`t be asking this question but(!) hey I`m 19 going through kinda the same thing I`m bisexual or curious idk I`m a virgin I want to test both out & see but(!) idk may be you should have a 3some mmf idk what I`m talking about.


and if gay porn turns you on I think you`ll like guys in some way eventually

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gaymentop 		Dude. gay porn, or any sexual stimulation, is by nature sexually stimulating to ANYONE. Even girls, though less markedly, because their sex-drive isn`t as strong.

The only way to know is to actually DATE 1 of these close friends (of male variety).

Of course, you don`t want to know, you just want to get it out of your system; Try switching porn; Have you seen lesbians? Perhaps roleplay? It doesn`t really matter if you`re losing interest in first place

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jimmygay 		you watch, & are turned on by gay porn, & you play with toys anally. hummm.

depending on how big the toy is fred, is a clue to how bi-curious you are!

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serenity 		i read in the book `flesh & blood` by michael cunningham that man tried to get his bicurious curiosity out by actually going to a gay bar & experiencing with a guy. after the night was up he realized that he didnt enjoy anything with a guy, & he was straight.
you could think about trying this & not telling your current girlfriend about your fantasies;
its a hit or miss!

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gaynudist 		Women are beautiful creatures. There is nothing that will turn off your gay light switch like F@cking some pussy & grabbing some big boobies; Now, go to your gf, & DO WHAT I JUST SAID! & F@CK all you fudge dragon @ss pirates for giving straight guy thumbs down! HAHAHAHAHA!

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torogay 		stop watching gay porn

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twinklover 		Pray gay away.

http://www. southparkstudios. com/episodes/103199

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