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Ended long term gay relationship?

I want to go straight now. Met very attractive blonde woman at gym & there seems to be a connection though no sex yet.

However, when I was in the gay relationship, I was a bottom & my top had my pubic hairs removed with electrolysis. No hair has grown there since my treatment about two yrs ago.

I`m already a bit fem in appearance; I work out a lot but(!) I`m Asian & have little facial hair & no hair growth in areas where other men have hair such as chest, stomach, back, butt, etc.

I`m concerned that she will be turned off - she doesn`t know about my gay past let alone being a bottom. I think my hairless crotch will raise red flag with her; Not to mention my thing is small about 3; 5 in erect.

A couple questions:

is my thing considered small by white women standards?

Is there any way to reverse effects of pubic electrolysis as I want to grow hair there now to increase my masculine appearance?

I know they say women don`t care about penis size so could my size be considered ok or is it too small?

Should I let her know I was a gay bottom for over four yrs - I`m afraid she will think of me as feminine having received anal on regular basis & won`t want to be with me Also there is competition for this woman at the gym.

I`m 5`7 143 lb Asian but(!) very successful.

There`s this Cuban guy that hits on her a lot & tries to intimidate me all the time, he`s 6`3 & 275lb of muscle but(!) appears to be low income type;

How do I continue to court her without having this guy go after me.

She`s about 5`6 135 lb very very fit blonde.

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charliegay
Ended long term gay relationship?
I want to go straight now.


Stopped reading;

You`re still gay, stop being an idiot.

Have a nice day

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charliegay
Hey man. maybe you will luck out; Women are weird that way !

She may really get into pre-pubescent boys, or better yet, she may be an extremely butch dominatrix that will take you places you never dreamed possible. Go for it ! Buy her a gift of a small riding crop & start calling her mistress, & remember, never look her directly in eye ! They hate that !

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twinklover
It won`t be the fact that you were gay for four years or your hairless everything that will turn her off.

It`s fact that you`re still gay

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twinklover
Well Sheo - you are clearly bisexual. I very much doubt that most of your issues are hers. Who wants hairy man? I mean pubes are nice, & pit hair - but(!) chest & stomach -- ICK;

Be at peace, & I would say, don`t tell her anything about your prior relationship - it isn`t her business, honestly - & if I were her I would not want to know AT ALL; NOr would I as a GAY, not BI, but(!) gay male want to know if someone I was interested in had been with woman for several years;

Kind thoughts,

Hermes

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twinklover
U be silly Asian boy!

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twinklover
i stopped reading when you said `I want to go straight now. I met woman. `

You cannot just go straight; your gay; don`t make it like choice. your gona hurt others if you do

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gaykerk
I think she is going to figure it out. So, you may want to indicate that you are at least bi.

3. 5 is small by any standard, but(!) they say. more then a mouthful is not necessary. Personally it would not be a big turn on for me. Hopefully you have other skills that may come in handy

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