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How common is it for a person to want anal?

I`m kinda embarrassed to ask this, but(!) I`m just wondering how common is it for a person to want to have anal sex?

I don`t care if people want to do it, but(!) the idea of it really grosses me out & I don`t really ever want to do it. I`m sure there are gay guys out there who are fine with just oral sex or HJ or something.

Basically I`m wondering if guy I was with would be disappointed if I told him I wasn`t interested in anal sex?

747 day ago

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gaykerk
I am sure they would be very disappointed, you should go & see sex therapist & they can help you relax & enjoy experience

good luck with it

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gaykerk
im cool with it but(!) if my boyfriend didnt want to of course we`d do sumtin else

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Anal sex is an acquired taste (which usually starts with rimming first). I`m presuming that you haven`t had much male2male intimacy & I think you will find that unless your partner is much older or is rabbit when it comes to sex, he will also be reluctant to `pop the cherry` on the first date. In fact you should keep yourself nice for as long as you wish;

The more familiar you become with a partner`s body more likely your inhibitions & reluctance will subside, but(!) do yourselves a favour & at least be prepared for the possibility at some time in the future (some would say inevitability). Buy some condoms & lubrication (water based) & keep them handy, for when the passion explodes; Just be aware that the first attempts can be failures & too painful to continue, but(!) practice makes perfect!

You may think the act of sodomy is gross now & you may also think you can limit your sexual expression to fellatio & mutual masturbation, but(!) there will probably come a time with someone special when you feel it`s right to go all the way. that`s the time you need the condoms & lube to be in a backpack, just at arms length away!

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