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(Very adult questions); is anal sex safe?!?

My husband wants to try it & I`m curious too. but(!) when people refer to gay men as a `fudge packers` or `pushing your $hit in`, cannot this become dangerous? How can guys like doing this even though there`s a chance of getting crap on his stuff? if I was a guy i`d be so grossed out! Also I know it hurts first few times, but(!) what are some tricks to kind of ease into it?

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jimmygay 		anal sex is my favorite. I was afraid to try it at first, but(!) I`m sooo glad I did.

My fiance & I have been having anal sex for the past 2 years & I have neve once gotten his `stuff` dirty. Just make sure you`re clean beforehand & you`ll be fine.

Also, it has never been hurtful for me, as long as he gently eases in & as long as you stay relaxed you`ll be fine

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charliegay 		Well, of course it is dangerous because the anus has a lot of bacterias & your husband could get an infection, but(!) this is the good way before you are ready to have anal sex make sure not to eat 8 to 10 hours before, for example do not eat heavy food, I really recommend you to eat lots of lettuce which would help to take all crap out to the toilet. & if It`s the first time you are trying to do it, make sure to use a water lubricant this will help to prevent to hurts, & it does hurts every time you do it through there, ABOUT the lettuce is just if you are trying to do it without condom, otherwise just use the condom, hope it help You in someways, Good Luck

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gaykerk 		Can he handle good strong leg kick in balls or stick something up his arse? Tell him that kick in the balls is supposed to feel good too; Tell him it is called the MULE LOVE; Tell him that he needs to feel bottle in his rear

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gopbol 		You really need to be careful & practice birth control. Unprotected anal sex ia where lawyers come from

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mensexonly 		respect to nocturnal, that was 1 of the funniest clever things I`ve ever read.

dont know the answer to your question. although I am a fan or porn and I can tell you I`ve never seen any poo on or around theyre genitals and they get pretty vigorous with it

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gaynudist 		yes It`s safe as long as you prepare for it like use proper lube & it wouldn`t hurt to give yourself an enema before hand; Hopefully you husband is not a giant but(!) even if he were just try & relax & use plenty of lube once he gets inside you the pain if any will turn into pleasure just go slow at first most women really enjoy it when done correctly may be have a few drinks to set mood.
all those other answers are just their opinions & not from experience

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charliegay 		I heard that 90% of people poo themselves first time they have anal sex :-P

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gaynudist 		it`s not safe sweetie. its gonna mess you up; things are ment to come out
back there not go in. thats not the way were made
and you don`t find it strange that you husband wants to be a fudge packer? Men n women have butts; so ask him what makes yours different besides the fact that you`re his wife

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mensexonly 		I enjoy giving anal & my wife loves to receive it. It`s all about taking it slow, size progress, & lubrication. Start small like a finger & work your way up to his penis. KY Jelly is a must until you get your anus stretched (which will take few months); It`s also really important to not go too deep too fast or go to a larger size too fast because you WILL rip your rectum & cause an anal fissure. My wife enjoys it when I rub her front when I play with her back, this way you`re stimulated & relaxed for the back; There are several websites that can go into deeper detail, AskGayMen! search it & you`ll get more info.

By the way, I suspect your account could be at risk for asking this (Yahoo! doesn`t like adult questions)

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bobdilan 		Safe, but(!) use lube & go slowly

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mensexonly 		Google it, it`s really not something we should talk about with total strangers who could give you any advice they please, right or wrong; Do some research yourself & next time, remember, TMI

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bobdilan 		Okay people. grow up.

First I would like to say that I do believe you should do some of your own research; but(!) for the sake of answering your question I can offer some advice.

1. Make sure you are comfortable doing this, & that you actually want to; If you feel weirded out, youre going to act weird & whole experience can become awkward; Your husband & you should talk about it some more until you are confident in your decision.

2. Here`s a very adult answer for your very adult question. One thing that is very helpful is taking baby steps; Before you do the real thing you should get used to having stimulation in this area; sex toy or finger will do fine. This will help you feel more comfortable with idea, & also will help `prep` your anus for anal sex; Just make sure you take it slow, & if you feel uncomfortable STOP. These sort of things take time.

3. Get lube. Your anus does not have lubrication like your vagina does; If you don`t use lube you can damage the sensitive tissue. Beware of lubes that say they are specifically for anal sex. Many of these products contain numbing agents; I know this sounds great, but(!) your body`s defense is feeling pain. If you try to mask it, then you will not know if you are pushing your body too far. This can lead to injury. So like I said before, take your time & listen to your body. If it hurts stop & try again later.

4. Do not worry about whole `crap on his stuff`; It kinda comes with the territory. You should try to go to bathroom before any anal play. You can also use an enema. Just make sure that you clean yourself well after using the bathroom; Soap & water is good idea. You still might feel like you have to go to the bathroom while engaging in anal sex, It`s something you`ll get used to if you so decide;

5. Lastly, some tips for good health! NEVER switch from anal to vaginal sex for obvious reasons. Both of you should shower after deed to remove any fecal matter (whether It`s visible or not; its there), & use a condom! You can still get STD`s from unprotected anal sex.

So once again, take it slow & listen to your body! Do some of your own research & feel confident in your decision.

Good luck

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jimmygay 		ErikaS
Unsafe, killer unsafe.
Your man wants to do the back-door boogie. His fantasy is it will be rapturously wonderful, forbidden, taboo-breaking, transporting experience? Wow-sparks fly from his fingertips. No; Death flies, Miss ErikaS. Death by disease.

See, buzz-kill, huh. About half of all guys have virus that causes warts; Ever had a wart on your fingertip or toes, maybe, you know, when you were kid? Or has he? Get out the Compound W & it goes away. Sorta` it goes into hiding, is what happens. It`s a virus called HPV, & it kills mostly women who are willing to take it in back-door.

This fantasy spreads real virus an invisible virus that kills women `ugly` if they get it in back-door. Okay, I`ll give you 1 example: Farrah Fawcett, the beautiful blond actress, she died a horrible, off-the-scale painful death from anal cancer. She took it in the back door & caught virus (HPV) that took years to kill her dead; She tried to warn folks, but(!) most folks would rather keep their fantasy-life; even if it kills the woman they claim to love.

Please read up on it. Really; Please

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