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Will I get HIV if ; ?

Hi :)
I`m gay male, & I have boyfriend, however I am currently a virgin to anal sex;
However I think that we probably will be having it sooner or later, & I want to know about the risks of HIV with having anal sex because I know that there is some, but(!) I am not very sure if what exactaly they are;
So could someone explain to me what risks are & how to avoid them ?
Thank you :)

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serenity
Hello. gay male here, & bottom as well;
First of all, it being your first time, it will be really really tight, & it will have a REALLY HIGH chance to bleed, may be not lot, but(!) certainly at least a little; I highly recommend you have him use a condom, & you guys use lot of lube. It will be really helpful. & the condom will reduce the risk of getting HIV.

As far as I know, anal foreplay is not really that ¨risky¨ You do, however, have to be careful, because you never know;
If there´s fingering going to be involved, I suggest you make sure he has no cuts on his fingers, or I suggest he wear a glove, or something;

If there´s going to be rimming involved¨(licking) I don´t think there´s a high risk with that, just try to be extra, EXTRA clean.

Do NOT, allow him to come inside you EVEN WITH a CONDOM.

Communication is the key. Talk to him about your fears & as a couple & as a loving boyfriend, he should be able to understand you.

I´ve been through it! & It all seems to work out well.
Good luck!

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charliegay
Fuck the bible you retard

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mensexonly
Your grammar is incorrect. It is `there are some` not there `is ` some.

Anal sex is a major way HIV/AIDs is spread. When a person has unprotected sex they are having sex with everyone that person has ever had sex with;

The Bible says to not do that; It says not to commit adultery,not to be promiscuous; It says to do unto others as you would be done. I am a Christian;
I am answering from that standpoint. Of course, no 1 has ever had unprotected sex, nor committed adultery, & everyone uses protection, that is why there are no STDs out there.

Protected sex is always good. Abstinence is good. Look at the statistics on the transmission of HIV/AIDS

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bobdilan
Hi:)
The only way to protect yourself against HIV/AIDS, & other STDs, are by using condome. but(!) since you are in a steady relationship & you don`t have to worry about pregnancy, then just get tested:) If your partner has had sex before he should get tested. You say you are virgin to anal sex, what about other types of sex? If you have had that(even oral) then you should get tested too

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