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Need help with anal sex & would prefer answers/experience from gay males (bottoms). ?

My bf has been begging for anal sex last year of our relationship; I have no problem with it & actually enjoy it, except what can I do to make sure I don`t `poo` on his penis? Or is this a pretty common thing? Last night I decided to initiate it & it was going along well; He was finished doing his thing & I noticed my bottom was `too wet` (not from lube); As it turns out, I did a bit of a `dirty birdy`. I got up & washed off & came back, laughed & washed him off; It was nothing big & didn`t smell, but(!) all the same little embarrassing;

I thought I was okay & that wasn`t going to happen, but(!) it did. This is why I hesitate to have anal sex more often. What can I do to make sure (as best as possible) this doesn`t happen again? Whether I am planning it, or it is spur of the moment; I would LOVE some advice!

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charliegay 		I`d say just poop before hand; & if there is no time make time so you don`t shit on him

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jimmygay 		just use summers eve disposable douche, problem with the fleet enemas is they are designed as laxative type thing so even after you use 1 you may still need to go for quite while afterwards ; the douche products is designed to cleanse & add a fragrence ; you can refill it with water to rinse out the bottle a few times which works good also as few small douches do a better job preparing opposed to like a full enema. & It`s product your probably familar with anyway

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mensexonly 		Bottoms typically do cleansing enema prior to a big anal sex session. It will get you all cleaned out

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jimmygay 		I can sort of relate. Only I have not got brave enough to let him do it yet; & he wants to c*m inside. I`m very nervous. I don`t mind kinky but(!) this is something I have never even thought about. I want to do it to please him but(!) like I said, very nervous; I hope you don`t mind that I put this here; I wanted to answer so it would be on my Q & a in my profile so I don`t have to search for it to read the answers

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gaykerk 		GOOD QUESTION! can you leave this question up for a few days ? please? so as to gather as much possible advice as possible; This is a HUGE problem

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charliegay 		You have got to clean yourself with an enema first. In order for you to enjoy it you have to relax the muscle or it will hurt. Of course when you relax the muscle it there is any materal in there it will come out, that is what you do when you go to the toilet; Easiest thing is Fleet enema, any drugstore will have it; It comes self contained in bottle & applicator. Follow directions & have fun; To me there is nothing that kills passion more than big stink. He can get injections too from fecal matter on his penis. Oh yeah, & according to my wife, three or four apple martinis first makes it a lot more enjoyable

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gaymentop 		That is not common thing to happen in anal sex. I think it might be that you get overly excited & then can`t control your bowl movement. What you need to do is try going to the bathroom before he penetrate you. Also another trick I tried was using sex toy & doing it slowly with increasing speed until I think it would be him ready to shoot his load; Hope it help

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gopbol 		Do a small Fleet brand saline enema;

They come in a box. They`re small & disposable. You can get them at just about any drug store or supermarket that has a health supply section. Gets you clean quickly, & better than harsh, chemical laxatives that can upset your digestive system.

Or if it`s something you plan to do on a regular basis, may be invest in an enema bag

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gaykerk 		See, that`s why I wonder why guys get so grossed out about gay men, even heteros want to shove it up a bum! Try an enema before doing it. I don`t have personal experience because that is an exit only for me!

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jimmygay 		klench your ass the whole way throught, that would feel better for him & also stop your problem.


but you really should go to the toilet before hand

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