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What should I say when gay Man is cruising me?

Developing my career has been a struggle & has proved to be well worth the effort; I am taking a mental health day off from work as I simply don`t know how to communicate with a man at work who has made it quite clear what his feelings are. What is the best way to tell him I am straighter than a straight line? Asking the Stupid Questions is part of why I am so good at my career! There are no stupid questions.

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mensexonly 		stop man i`m straight

leave me frick alone or i`m gonna frick your face

you even lost work over this piece of work

shame on you-be man dude, be man

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gaymentop 		You mean to tell me you are LIFE COACH & you can`t figure this out?

Doesn`t exactly scream out success does it?

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bobdilan 		Just tell him you are straight & not interested in a gay relationship

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gaynudist 		Just talk to him,let him know your though about the situation

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charliegay 		Tell him your flattered but(!) you`re straight; It`s that easy

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gopbol 		tell dat person two lay off if You are not gay ; if You are gay than I cannot tell You what two do

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torogay 		just tell him, I`m straight. & if he is making you feel uncomfortable let him know, & if he doesn`t stop report him to HR, nobody should feel threaded at work

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mensexonly 		How about go fxxk yourself, that should do it

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twinklover 		Simple, tell him that your not gay

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torogay 		By `has made it quite clear what his feelings are` you make the question almost unanswerable;

Does that mean that you BELIEVE that he is gay & interested in you, but(!) all he has DONE is flirt or even just appear to be gay? Does it mean that he ASKED you to go out with him? What does it mean?

I`m gay; I, without any conscious effort, flirt with everyone I meet. I`ve been with the same partner for going on 16 years. My bowing over women`s hands, & flirting back with straight guys who flirt with me as a joke are, while a sign that I`m secure as myself -- NOT an indicator of anything else. I`ve never had negative repercussion from any of it either, people understand who I am; On other hand, I have been forcefully propositioned by both men & women who were determined to have sex with me (when I was younger) -- those situations are difficult;

If the latter is the issue; If the other man is directly pressuring you to have sex, attempting to use his position to `force` you to have sex or actually has physically touched you in a private place on your body IN a SITUATION WHERE YOU CAN CLEARLY PROVE IT HAPPENED -- then you shouldn`t be talking to us, you should go straight to your HR department;

If the guy, on other hand is `thought to be` or has said that he is gay -- & is friendly to you or flirts mildly with you -- which is for some reason more the feeling I get out of what you posted than the other --- then if I were you I would take some serious time to examine my own self-image; That sort of thing goes on all the time by every gender to every gender. It is harmless, & being overly concerned says to me that you are extremely insecure. There is a huge difference between sexual harassment & flirtation & an even huger 1 between sexual harassment & thinking that someone is after you when perhaps they haven`t even flirted but(!) are `known` to be gay & are making their feelings `evident. `

Only you honestly know which it is, but(!) I hope you will act accordingly in EITHER case.

Regards,

Reynolds Jones
believeinyou24@yahoo. com

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gaynudist 		You just tell him. First, let him know that It`s disrepectful, non-professional & rude to carry on with flirting at work. ESPECIALLY if It`s not wanted & not reciprocated. You don`t have to be nasty or have a bad attitude when You say something to him, but(!) You can demand that he stop

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charliegay 		Tell him, that he`s barking up wrong tree- then proceed to flirt with a female coworker; That should give him hint

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gopbol 		Well, you don`t want to hurt his feelings. the best thing you can do is to tell him that you are very flattered by his interest in you however you prefer women. In most cases this respectful answer works well with out hurting feelings; fact that they know you are `flattered` makes them feel good, & they can not blaim you for your sexual preference. I have used this phrase with women hitting on me as well & most of the time they are very understanding; I also got 1 heck of an awsome friend out of it too

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jimmygay 		tell him if he was better looking you might consider it. ;-)

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mensexonly 		`I`m not gay,` has worked for me past 40 years; (It used to be `homosexual` a few decades ago when `gay` was a more generic term defining mood - except in the gay Community; )

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torogay 		Tell him on his face: You are barking at the wrong tree!

All the best!/

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gopbol 		send him dozen roses with a note saying you are not interested in sex with him & to leave you alone

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