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As a straight guy, I feel comfortable to gay cruise & hold my gay male buddy`s hand in public; Is that OK?

I am a male, 25, heterosexual. I am a full-time firefighter & a part-time personal trainer in gym.
Many of my friends say I look like Robert Downey Jr in his 20s; They say I have a nice body & look hot in my firemen uniform. However, I always regard myself as a normal-looking / average-looking guy ; I am gay-friendly & have a gf who is a f**-hag ( sorry guys, I don`t know better substitute word for this )

I have male buddy who is the same age as me, He is a good guy. Last year, he came out of closet as a gay man; Since I support gay rights, I am on his side & suipport him to stand against homophobia; He admitted he had developed crush on me I replied, `I don`t mind. Everyone has the right to develop crush on anyone. ` He said that he won`t date me because he know I am straight. Meanwhile, I try my best to find him a bf too.

He also asked if I can hold his hand in the public. I said I don`t mind. We hold hands in public. On the bus, I let me put his head on my shoulder; My gf, who is a f**-hag, has no problem at all. We decided to go to gay cruise too, only three of us; However, do gay cruise allow straight -man to join them?


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gopbol 		wel I have a different opinion to everyone else. you sound like you`re at least bisexual. & if you`re absolutely sure you`re not then I wouldn`t keep letting your friend hold your hand etc because as he`s already said to you he had crush on you, you don`t want him getting the wrong idea & end up getting hurt

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gaynudist 		good job for being a f**hag! Everything that you have been doing is totally fine! don`t worry about iit & have fun on that cruise!

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mensexonly 		If your girl is okay with that, that`s weird. Other than that sure; I mean your trying to figure out if It`s okay or not, so go for it; Just don`t hurt anyone doing it

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gaynudist 		wtf?

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jimmygay 		Don`t tell them you`re straight, just go, have fun. Everyone will assume you`re gay anyway

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twinklover 		lol who cares as long as you feel like yourself & comfortable around him ; in my eyes there is nothing wrong with that :)

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mensexonly 		If you are comfortable then it is okay; & gay cruises SHOULD allow straight men to join them

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twinklover 		yes gay cruises accept straight men on their ships if yall are payin they`ll let you in.
also it`s not wierd, your just trying to help guy out you know & well you sound like REALLY nice dude & I respect that. I think you should just keep on doing what You are doing if nothings wrong. then don`t change it right? that`s all I got dude

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gaynudist 		Cool; You seem genuine when you say that your straight, I believe you. Do what you want man

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gaynudist 		You can go on gay cruise with him if you are wishing to experiment with the gay lifestyle & you will not get offended if another male makes a pass at you; However if you are certain that you are straight, you should not deceive your friend who is gay. You might be bisexual. So if your gf does not mind, & you want to go, why not go? You could ask the cruise line manager this question if you have any doubts; Best wishes

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gaymentop 		That`s totally fine, there isn`t anything wrong with that

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bobdilan 		Yea sure, sounds fine to me. Just don`t give your friend wrong impression or anything, that`s bad. Have fun!

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jimmygay 		I wish more men were like you! Congratulations for being so comfortable in your sexuality. That is so great, & it is completely normal! You sound like an amazing person, & your gf sounds amazing too!
Have a great night!

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mensexonly 		Bon voyage! Have a nice cruise!

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torogay 		Well at least you won`t have to worry about competition from other guys trying to meet your gf on the cruise! :)

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charliegay 		You are so gay. Only a matter of time before you`ll be on your knees

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