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is my bf gay,just a cross dresser?

we`ve been together 8yrs two 1/2 years into he started wearing panty hose & high heels, he claims he doesn`t like his feet & likes way the nylons feel. our sex activaty is great & very often all weekend long. he travels during the week; he has to masterbate two or3 times everyday, his preference for porn is shemales, every where we move he finds a friend who is gay. he swears he just likes to cross dress, & he only does this when he`s drinking{every week end!} but(!) now he has group of guy friends, they have a band,hang out in this warehouse studio & every 1 there has openly told me their either gay our bisexual but(!) my guy says he goes for the music, he became friend with this crowd four months ago, we still have incredible sex, all the time, but(!) he showers & dress really nice now & puts on colonge, never takes me anywhere, what`s happening

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gaykerk 		If you`ve been together 8 years, chances are he isn`t gay, & also if he`s been out about fact that he likes to crossdress for 6 & 1/2 years, he`s being pretty honest with you about himself. Being crossdresser, he`s probably very secure in his sexuality, because all of us who do that have at least 1 moment of doubt or so where we have to really ask ourselves, `hey am I gay?` Because he`s comfortable with his sexuality, he doesn`t have the inhibitions about hanging out with gay or bisexual guys that lot of straight guys might. In other words, he knows he`s not interested in them so he`s not threatened by them. Also, the gay & bisexual guys are probably more accepting of his crossdressing than he assumes a lot of straight guys would be.

The thing in your post that is more of an issue is the `never takes me anywhere` line, IMHO; He shouldn`t be neglecting you; You seem to be really supportive of him & really tolerant of his crossdressing & for most part trusting of his loyalty. You should really sit down & say, hey, we never go out anymore & I really miss spending time with you; may be set up like a weekly `date night` or something so that your time together doesn`t get lost in the shuffle somewhere

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torogay 		Sounds like he can`t make up his mind; gay people have an attraction to the same sex & if he only hangs with other gay people then It`s very possible that he is gay

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