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gay guys obsessed with sex? what? why?

im 17, & in the closet. on bebo(a social network, irelands & englands equivilent of facebook) there`s gay groups, & nearly all gay guys are topless or in their underwear!

why?

im gay, I wouldnt go around posting pics of myself topless on the internet; & for what, attention from people I dnt even know?

why is it that this seems to happen?

are all gay guys like this?

i mean, sex is special, not something You gave to someone You just met;


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mensexonly
Promiscuous behavior isn`t only common with `gay men`;

Those websites seem to attract some users who are desperate for compliments/attention. They take pictures like that for attention

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gaynudist
There are straight people who do the same thing.
You`re telling me you haven`t seen pictures of girls wearing next-to-nothing in their profile pics? Or even out in public?

It`s just way of expression lol
But not all gay guys are like that, just as not all girls are like that

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mensexonly
Gay guys are not obsessed with sex - GUYS PERIOD are obsessed with sex. Also, I notice that a LOT of straight guys post nude or semi-nude pictures of themselves online. Sometimes they send such pictures to women who (for some strange reason) don`t like it.

This isn`t a gay issue - it`s male issue. & since males know that OTHER males also are obsessed with sex, they make a lot of their pictures very sexual; Some guys don`t like that, & so you don`t have to post such pictures yourself if you don`t want to.

Just don`t make this gay issue

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torogay
ugh sometimes I get the feeling that that`s how it is.
I`d like to say no but(!) from my experience it is.
but I cannot speak for all of us so ill say no not all of us are
I`m not obsessed but(!) I disagree with the statement that It`s special
lol but(!) whatevs tho =]

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mensexonly
Guys are just pigs; Lets face it. When you grow up with your best friend that thing between your legs how do you expect it to be any other way?

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charliegay
Well I do!

Just because I`ve got my top off in my pic does not mean I want sex with everyone, far from it I`m extremely fussy!

Some gay sites have men nude, which I don`t agree with & few gay sites I am on, men send me pic`s of their dicks which I think is disgusting - never reply to those type of men;

So I think it`s ok for men to show their chests etc but(!) not everything you need something for the imagination!

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serenity
You will find that most men, gay or straight, are obsessed with sex; It only seems more pronounced among gay men because there are far fewer of them & many of them are more open about their sexuality & sexual issues than the average straight man is. It`s also a cultural thing. Straight men want to have sex with women, but(!) they know that they`re not going to impress most women just by posting sleazy pictures on the internet. Also, most women are not as obsessed with prettiness on man or that he live in the gym all time so that he can have a near perfect body---as long as the dude is decent looking & treats her nice;

Many gay men, on the other hand, are not looking for long term relationships. They are looking for quick sex, & they want it with man who looks really good & who also has a hot body. naked pictures on the internet are just a way to get right to the point without wasting any time. but(!) there are plenty of gay men out there who don`t do this. I mean, good looking ones who are looking for relationships; Unfortunately, they are fewer & much harder to find

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torogay
The thing is that they want to show there bodies out there & try to get as many gay friends on myspaces/facebook; I don`t do that

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serenity
Maybe you shouldn`t look for relationship on online sites like that; gay relationships are also built on mutual respect & compassion. gay people are not sex-addicts who can`t keep it in their pants; That`s a stereotype.

If you want love & true partner, you`ll have to look elsewhere. It`s not that easy, but(!) it`s worth it. =)

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gaynudist
Um mm, straight people have many partners too, Promiscuity is a human condition, not a homosexual one! :@)

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charliegay
Not everybody who posted their topless picture of him are obsessed with sex; It`s really not wrong. a lot of people think that it`s just something to show yourself in that way, & that`s it;

Don`t be shallow. There are more to people then just their shirtless picture.

Besides, did you know that those guys might not be real people? Dating sites usually make some more than 1000 fake profiles of cute guys (Who`s pic they got randomly from the net)

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