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masturbation is giving me gay thoughts ! can I get rid of this?

when iwere a child ihad a gay sex abuse but(!) iwas agreed for that! & also in my childhood ihad done some little gay things with four or 5 people! when ibecame grown up icame to knew it was totaly wrong; for me. & idont want blame my childhood because on that time idont know whats going around me! well anyways now iam 22yrs because of the past ihave several depressions in my head! & what happened in the present is something like. 1 night iwas masturbating & suddenly igot memories from past then istarted to enjoy it ! ifeel like iam gay on that moment & ilike it on that moment but(!) when masturbation is over iam straight again? & I feel disgusted? anyways in my life I had done some gay things & did like that when iwas child but(!) now iam not? some americans said that`s way you are so accept it & go for it? but(!) iwill say that`s rubbish. so now you may think iam bisexual. no not at all! all I want is these gay thoughts out of my mind? ilove girls & they rock!

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gaymentop 		I don`t see a problem, be yourself & what you think about when jerking off is your business

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serenity 		Well there is a scripture that says for us to `deaden out body members` meaning to have self control when it comes to our bodys. Masturbation does make us feel bad because it is self abuse. Homosexual relations arent good for us either. They are really bad. Being molested is horrible & plants many seeds of doubt within our minds but(!) we can overcome those things. Say prayer to God & ask for strenght to break cycle; If you know something is wrong don`t keep doing it; Pray for wisdom & maturity to overcome having been molested & you can get help, but(!) don`t practice wrong things; Also, when you are arroused, try getting up & going out or something so that you don`t give into your temptations; God does not lead you into temptation & does make way out when you are tempted

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bobdilan 		Thank God for light. This is exactly why Islam forbid homosexuality. It brings nothing but(!) bad. There is something call the prayers.

I`m a muslim & i`m not asking you to look into my religion for ans(well the ans is in ISLAM actually). Look it up yourself. Ease your mind & remember to tell yourself that it is disgusting. We are human & we don`t need to stood that low like animals; Dint bother they says all the right things to be homo is all BullSh!t. It`s a way to risen boundary of SIN; eg just like they legalise pornography legalise gay marriage. What next? bestiality?People will always find a way to make it looks good. Once Islam FORBIDS there M You S T be reason.

Prayers is the ans. Doesn`t matter which religion as long as you follow the right path.

And yes babes rock! I believe that. God want you to see that way. but(!) remember to treat them with respect & uphold their dignity; It`s our responsibility as a MAN. God create them from our own ribs.

Lastly. Don`t be ashamed of God. He welcomes you AS long as you repent. You don`t need to say it. Just mention it in your heart & He will listen. Just tell yourself `i will never become DoGS anymore!` `Angels bow to me with respect so I must stand & be respected. ` Only you & GOD knows & he will Judge your actions;

God bless you my friend

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torogay 		Here is what I think. I am 21yr old male & have never had this problem at all but(!) I can empathize with you on some level. Perhaps it is simply the taboo part of the homosexual tendencies that is what turns you on. kinky part. Or perhaps the prostate massaging which is also sometimes considered the male G-Spot. If 1 or all of both of these is it than there are plenty of women that are into kinky things out there. Let yourself be open to knew things with women. Tell them what you want; If it is a finger in the corn hole then see what they say. Explain to them that it simply feels good & that you are not homo-sexual just into kink; You may grow out of these things or perhaps you are haunted by the things in your past. but(!) either way, you can only change your future & your future habits;

Believe it or not, you really can control your mind. Also you might want to try this. Don`t masturbate for 3-7 days. Don`t do it at all; Think about your wildest fantasies with all of those rockin` laddies that you described in your question. Then after few days or week let al your tension out; Program yourself the way you want to be & through that you will set yourself free. Good luck & if you need a friend I am popeye1285@yahoo; com

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mensexonly 		professional psychologist would be better equipped to handle this question, but(!) I`ll give some of my thoughts on it. Since I am in no way, shape or form, professional, take my opinions lightly.

First of all, I am so sorry for the abuse you went through as a child. No 1 should have to go through something that horrid. If you have access to a psychologist, please think about going to one; They can help you come to terms with this past trauma; If you do not have access to one, see if you can seek out some support groups online for suvivors of sexual abuse.

Secondly, it`s normal for children of the same age to mess around with each other sexually. Since most societies are in the habit of separating young boys & young girls, children mess around with others of the same sex. It doesn`t mean they`re gay, it means they`re learning about their bodies & learning about what feels good, all in the presence of the only people they can be around.

When you were masturbating last night, your brain more than likely tapped into past physical sensations that felt good; When your body feels good, it doesn`t take into consideration that your mind may not have wanted it; It only realizes that it felt good. That may be why you had those memories while you were feeling good last night.

From way you have written this, I don`t think you`re gay or bisexual; (Although there would be nothing wrong with it if you were; ) As for how to get the `gay` thoughts out of your mind, that`s a tough one. You could try to make memories with girls for your mind to dwell on. If you`re still single, perhaps you could concentrate on a female form while you`re pleasuring yourself. but(!) if `gay` thoughts come to you, don`t try to push them away, it will only make it worse because then you`ll end up feeling guilty. No matter what, don`t let any of your thoughts make you feel guilty.

With all that being said, I still recommend a psychologist`s professional opinion; Good luck to you

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torogay 		Well I guess you`re in the denial stage, boy. but(!) you make up your mind ! Decide what you wanna be ! Know what gives you happiness & peace of mind as long as you be responsible with all your actions

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