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Am I straight, gay, or bi?

ok, recently, I have been having thoughts about other guys; it seems sorta interesting. but(!) it feels so wrong; I have girlfriend, we have been dating for 8 months. I absolutely love her, we have done everything besides sexual things. but(!) these thoughts keep coming back, & I hate it; I don`t want to be gay or bi. but(!) I just cannot stop them. to be sure, I looked at some guys kissing. I was just disgusted by it & instantly closed out. I looked up girls making out, & I got aroused in seconds. hell, I used to masturbate to lesbian porn before me & my girlfriend started going out. still do every once in awhile; plus, I fantasize about girls every night before going to sleep. never about guys. I tried once, but(!) it felt wrong & I felt no arousment. I love being manly & all. & I really don`t like gay guys (no offense) I always feel a strong need to punch them; I just love checking out girls, but(!) not guys; tried it, felt weird. so can anyone tell me what my orientation is? is it just a phase I`m going through? am I just curios? please, someone out there help me.

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serenity 		I think that you are just trying to figure out what your `Callling` is. It sounds like that you are straight because you feel better when you look at women more than men & that you still look at men nothing happends, or just not as much as women. By calling I mean your sexuality. You are straight though, according to this paragraph

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mensexonly 		If you didn’t have an attraction to the same sex you wouldn’t have any friends that are guys. You obviously have some sort of gravitation towards them but(!) It`s not sexual. Like you said you find it gross; & besides about 30-40% of guys experiment with other guys; may be try it? Or just stay with your girl

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jimmygay 		Your curious. Turn down internet & turn on social life with guys. Just try to kiss guy. If you feel wrong by that then just keep it to yourself & don`t ever tell anyone. If not then may be you shouldn`t have a girlfriend

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gopbol 		common dude you are a man these question just pops up in your mind cuz you think to much about it
don`t be like all those guys turning from guys into gay people this days you cannot even tell who is a guy & who is a girl

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torogay 		Kind of late for me & sleepy; Sorry never finish reading the content. I think you should be what you happy to be. Why care what others think you are? Good nite

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gopbol 		I would have said you were straight, but(!) that `strong need to punch` gay guys makes me think that there may be more to your thoughts than just random intrusion. Sounds like you are fighting what you don`t like in yourself; If you have a little bisexual component to your sexuality, that`s fine. You don`t have to act on it if you you are happy & satisfied. but(!) please, don`t punch the gay guys

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mensexonly 		your probably a hermaphordite

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gopbol 		lol you`re straight; all guys judge other guys. if you`re preppy guy (like me) You are probably metrosexual & there is no problem at all having a man crush (someone you admire who just so happens to be a male)

if you have sexual feelings or thoughts of a guy, then yea You are probably bi; but(!) if You don`t & You are just like `oh he looks good` or `he looks good with that outfit` or `his hair makes him look pretty fresh today` then that`s normal. obviously you don`t go full out public with it

dont worry bout it

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serenity 		Your curious. & missing out a lot. Try it. Think of whats stopping you; Then try not to let that stop you & then try to kiss a guy; If It`s uncomfortable then you`re straight, but(!) if It`s uncomfortable at first, but(!) you still think about it & cannot sleep, you`re just scared of whats gona happen if you find out you`re bisexual or gay.

Its 2010. Living in fear is not going to take you anywhere.

Live your life, man!

P. S. You don`t have to be effeminate to be with other guys; & there are hell lot of manly guys out there; In here. Everywhere.

Good luck!

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bobdilan 		I am kinda the same way. I don`t think any other guys are cute, I hate seeing two guys make out, etc. What I`ve found is that as long as I think about sexy naked girls, dressed in stockings & heels with tight butts while I`m doing another guy, or I`m cross dressing & doing another guy, I love orgasm! I think it`s built in our minds, but(!) I could be wrong. I don`t know when or how it started with me, it was decades ago. I love seeing lingerie! I`m not gay, & I used to think I`m bi, but(!) I don`t think so anymore because I`ve never had any physical attraction to guys, just certain clothes & heels

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