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My bf & I broke up, & I had Oral sex with someone else. Now he wants to do the same thing?

My bf & I have dated for about 16 months (we are gay). He hit me in the eye & busted the inside of it, so I broke up with him. I took him back, but(!) was still angry & threw sour cream at his face 2 days later. He broke up with me, & said he can`t promise we would ever get back togethor again, but(!) that may be we would if we worked on a friendship first; I felt like this was his fault so I was very hurt, I started talking to other guys, 3 weeks later I had oral sex with one night stand with a person I didn`t know. Now he wants to do same thing, before we get back togethor, & I don`t know if I can handle it. I feel like this is all his fault anyways. with the way I was treated (he also `accidentally` took $150 dollars of my bonus money a week after hitting me in the eye to spend sum of $300 on underwear only week after he punched me).

Also, night he hit me in the eye, he was on Xanax, & a lot of alcohol, & hit me after returning from gay club, & I tried waking him up after he passed out drunk with puke on the floor.

The night I hooked up with someone else, he was asking to take more xanax from me, because he was going back out to gay club, so he obviously did not take anything from that situation, wich I feel pushed me to visit another guy while he was gone. I was confused why he was doing this again, & I kept asking him to please not to talk to other guys if he was going to club; He said he wouldn`t & that he loved me but(!) still never said we had a chance of getting back togethor. Due to me being hurt & resentful of our failed relationship (caused by his neglect) the friendship was not working out. Since he started the whole thing, I told him that I couldn`t do that, I wouldn`t be able to handle it, & that he was going to cause the end of the relationship.

Who is wrong here!? What do I do? is it wrong that he wants to be with someone else before accepting me back into his life? HELP PLEASE!

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