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am I gay if I am turned on by gay porn?

i watch it & masturbate to it but(!) I have no desire to be in romantic relationship & want to have family, I am attracted to girls in real life & not guys, I have had a guy crush, but(!) who hasn`t? & I never want to do anything with guys I webcam with online, I would never meet them & I don`t want to do stuff with them. I tried putting my finger in my bum but(!) did not like it so did not do it again, the idea of anal sex, either doing it or having it done is disgusting, I don`t like it in the porn either, like rimming is horrible! I only really watch it as cocks turn me on. I have masturbated to lesbians & enjoy that more but(!) is gay porn only a habit as I don`t enjoy the climax, I have it seems empty & am not really satisfied after it; what do I do?

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gopbol 		words `Batty boy` Springs to mind

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mensexonly 		No your not gay I don`t think, but(!) if you want relationship with a girl I would advice you to cut out these habits of watching gay porn, they would probably be put off

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gopbol 		you are probably just bi-sexual/bi curious; the only way to know for sure is if you try a little something with an attractive guy & see what your reaction is; Have fun ;)

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twinklover 		If you don`t enjoy it, why do you watch it? do you not enjoy it because you feel guilty? Not all gay guys do anal, & rimming is pleasant once you get over the conditioning society has placed on you.

Most of all, gay porn isn`t gay sex. You can`t judge your sexuality from that, only your fantasies. but(!) it is a fair indication.

It sounds very much like you are in the closet

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charliegay 		It could be that you simply enjoy sex. Seeing another guy feeling same way that you feel is stimulating because you relate; I feel I should note, however, that it`s very common to be turned off by anal at first, but(!) many people warm up to it quickly.

Your level of `Gayness` depends on you, man. If you don`t `want` to be with a guy, that`s your call; I know that personally (before I came out to myself) idea of being with a woman was both revolting & stimulating; negative feelings came from a lifetime of anti-gay indoctrination (I use this term because my folks & my church really did constantly tell me that gays were disgusting & all going to hell); Once I finally began a relationship with girl. everything changed.

Saying `no` to being with guy may cut you off from some great relationships in the future. I wish you luck with whatever you decide, but(!) it`s not a bad idea to be open-minded.

Again, Good Luck :)

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gaykerk 		Do you dream about gay sex? Do you get more excited from watching gay porn than you do watching straight porn? Do you catch yourself looking at the guy more when you watch straight porn. Do you feel attracted to guys sexually? Do you feel attracted to girls sexually? Do you get aroused when kissing / caressing man? Do you get aroused when kissing / caressing a woman? Both? 1 more than other?

Your involuntary feelings about or your reaction to gay & straight sex is just 1 measure of your orientation. You could be bisexual (feeling sexual attraction in some degree to both genders), or you could be straight & curious or you could be gay. all depending upon how you answer these questions.

Your unconscious reaction of excitement / attraction / arousal is your best measure of orientation, versus your conscious reaction when looking at guys/girls.

Your conscious reaction to thinking about a romantic relationship could be affected by your unconscious fears. Only you can define what you are. don`t let other people tell you.

Don`t let your reaction to anal eroticism throw you. Most gay men do not participate in anal play. so that shouldn`t be a criteria for deciding what your orientation is

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bobdilan 		It means you are not opposed to idea of gay porn. It could mean you have a suppressed homo sexuality. There are lot of homo sexual people who don`t enjoy anal sex receiving or giving; There is however a possibility that you may be homo sexual but(!) have been viewing it as wrong through life experiences such as parents, family, & friends who are not gay so you can not bring yourself to commit to being gay. There are people who like men in pron with women but(!) in way of what the woman`s response is to what the man is doing not any part of the man; From my understanding from a conversation with openly gay man being homosexual is something that can`t be helped. He explained it to me this way `if you see 2 woman kissing you get aroused & if you see 2 men your stomach turns; My reaction is to opposite without any thought involved just initial reaction to what I see`

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serenity 		It sounds as if you are intrigued by certain aspects of gay porn but(!) it doesn`t mean you are gay; You seem pretty grounded in being straight. Nothing wrong with a healthy curiosity. Knock yourself out & watch

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torogay 		I had in mind to answer 1 way but(!) have changed my mind now that I`ve started typing.

I only watch gay porn, gangbang scenes, & extreme porn (like older couples, pregnant women, really really fat women, etc. ) I no longer get turned on or find interest in regular porn where It`s guy on girl or even if it`s girl on girl. In fact, I`m almost repulsed by girl on girl porn, yet I`m bi. In addition to that, I`m married to a bisexual guy;

The type of porn I watch doesn`t indicate my sexual orientation; the sexual activities I willingly participate in does. So, I don`t think that you watching gay porn makes you gay. I think you watching gay porn indicates that you either have a fascination with or a curiousity about dick. Me watching the type porn I do, is an indication that vanilla sex just don`t do it for me & something other than traditional sex interests me.

What do you do? Nothing. You aren`t hurting anybody by watching gay porn. Porn is not something you have to share with others; You`re more than entitled to watch whatever it is that will be effective- outside of child pornography

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twinklover 		Any form of porn- gay or not may cause anyone-straight or not, to experience sexual arousal. I think you are just fine; if you were gay then you would be attracted to men & have feelings for them. gay porn can`t realy be a deciding factor

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torogay 		This is what they call to be in closet. You need to come out of the closet!

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serenity 		yes your gay

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jimmygay 		i don`t really think You are gay but(!) could be bisexual lol

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bobdilan 		wait til you get rimmed, you`ll change your mind

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torogay 		You Sound Bisexual Too Me

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mensexonly 		no not really. even a totally strait guy oculd have an orgasm is gay sex, since it really just comes from getting rubbed down there; It`s kinda the smae thing; it dosn`t per say mean your gay (though you could be)

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torogay 		You are what you are.

There are lots of straight guys who get turned on by lesbian sex. I don`t see any reason why it couldn`t happen the other way

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torogay 		Nah, you`re not gay. I think it`s normal to be turned on by anyone having sex despite one`s orientation. If you`re watching sex you`re gonna get horny! Unless it`s like beastiality, then you have a problem

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twinklover 		real question is, why do you masturbate to gay porn if you don`t want to be gay?


Most people masturbate to get a release after they have been aroused by someone that they saw but(!) cannot have; if you need porn of any kind to arouse yourself so that you can masturbate, then what`s the point?

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serenity 		YES, very gay! Do you like hairy Bears as well or mustache rides?

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