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Wheres good place to meet decent gay guys?

Where`s a good place to meet other young guys (18-25) because guys on gay social sites tends to high standards & be all about games & sex; It`s hard to find other gay/bi guys in public unless they are the obvious typical feminine guys & I don`t want that either. I live in Fort Worth, texas

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shvd28
I find it really makes a difference naturally where you live, a large city, conservative area, small town, rural area. Seems the larger cities are a bit easier. Maybe because there are so many different types of folks in them.
I also feel less likely to run into the nosy neighbor or someone you dont want to run into in larger cities

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gopbol
In your dreams

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bobdilan
It seems this problem is concurrent, & it is always the same case. I know this problem personally because I too have trouble with it; It is funny that the same stereotypes that are used to typify & generalize the gay community are the same ones we use to identify each other with lol; So how does a guy who is gay, but(!) at the same time does not show any remote characteristics that would otherwise classify under gay stereotype, find another gay guy, who too does not have the characteristics.
The solution is tough because you want to avoid fem guys but(!) seek a relation with someone for lack of better word more `straight male acting`, the problem occurs because the only way to identify a gay guy without even asking is primarily looking for these stereotypes, aka fem qualities. you know which 1 I mean, SO basically the only way to know would be to ASK!

There is really no other way to tell, I know it sucks. but yea I agree you will not find it in gay clubs because that`s were primarily fems are, god I hate using that word it feels so derogative, but(!) it is the only way to describe it; I suggest events that are gay political related, like protests, petitions, or gay chamber of commerce in your area, or basically anywhere & just hope you ask right person;
But I after encountering this question sooooo many times, I realize their are a lot of gay guys like you & me out there who are probably standing next to us on the bus or walk by us & are to afraid to ask each other because they are not sure if the other is gay or not & are afraid to offend. We are a rare breed of gay lol. We are a minority withing minority XD; Good luck to you

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gopbol
in public; but you gotta really fine tune your gaydar. if gay guy is into you, you might see him peeking at you. a lot more than a straight guy would; he`ll be friendly, etc

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jimmygay
coffee shop or bookstores in a part of town where gay businesses (bars, shops) are located

or try volunteering, though if it`s for a non LGBT organization you may have to fine tune your gaydar

good luck!

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