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a gay guy in love with a french man need your help!?

Hello;

I know that my case perhaps the strangest case ever known in my life;

Here is manual for my case.

I am a young guy from country located on the Persian Gulf. I am 21. Gay; An atheist; Cultured. Handsome & athletic; I love science & arts. I lived a very unhappy childhood; Were exposed to betrayals in my life so much; & lived life full of miserable because of my sexual orientation, & liberal thoughts;

I Entered a foreign university. I met young french man at the age of 24 years. Met him. We became friends. & then we are in love; the relationship lasted for six months. We agreed on immigration & marriage. & now he refuses to do so. & I`ve loved him more than anything in my life even me. he gave me happiness in my life in the true sense for first time.

And now I come out of the university because of some conditions. & he will graduate next year. I`ve got a scholarship in my country. & my life very easy & available at all what I needed. Can I leave my country. & waste my scholarship; Especially since I`m graduated from high school in 18 years old born 88 & did not complete university education so far.

& afraid to waste another year of my life. I do not know what to do; I can not afford to leave him though he tryed to leave me once, but(!) he regret & come back again.

He says he loves me & will stay with me whatever happens; but(!) I`m afraid to lose him If I do not study with him & travel with him; I know that finding someone like him is impossible in my country;

I am an atheist & gay. I have no hope for life here; Do you sacrifice for it. Or do I choose the easy life keep me a lonely sad person. I have been looking for love all my life. I have tried to migrat for this reason & now I find true love the 1.
. But it is very difficult. What is solution I am tired in my life so much; I want stability. I hope that You guys will gave an opinion;

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serenity
Firebird above is a complete & total idiot as if you can change your preference by just saying so; but(!) you knew that already.

Instead of depending on this French guy, look to your future. Find another country & use Asylum to emmigrate to that country. Might be the USA, Canada, UK for example. but you can do it. There you will find somebody to love & you can do it on your own terms

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gaymentop
The only respite you will find living in a islamic arab nation as gay or atheist man would be death or lies. Gather as much funds as you possibly can & immigrate at once; As for the french boy toy, there are plenty of other fish in the pond sir - if the relationship is becoming more stressful than it is worth, let it end. If you need marriage to immigrate, just tell him that even if it doesn`t work out between you 2 that you would like to get marriage for the sole sake of immigration (it would be marriage in name only) for it is too dangerous back in your home country. Best of luck to you my friend

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torogay
Forget this gay bloke & come home

Find yourself a nice girl, settle down & forget about everything

You can do so much better for yourself than this

Trust me

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